Sometimes I’m reminded how all of my brothers and sisters got graduation gifts from our parents when they graduated from high school and I didn’t get a single thing. No, I take that back – I got a “congrats” card. Big fat hairy deal, right? I’d like to think that I have “gotten over it” but from time to time someone will say “if you haven’t forgotten then you haven’t forgiven.” What kind of nonsense is that? You can’t control your memories, can you?